Lisa Collazo, LCSW - Professional Writer's Coach
Dedicated To Helping Writers Channel Fear Into Creative Energy

Question of the Month

Question of the Month for October 2007

“How do you practice writing with self-acceptance?”

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Responses From Newsletter Readers

4 responses have been received:

I tend to write more and more from a place of acceptance by knowing what I want to say. The how of it comes as I write, as I extrapolate meaning and even sense out of the senselessness of life at times - through placing characters in situations outside of my norm and watching them change and grow from their experiences. Life is all about characterization and perspective. Change the perspective and a whole new set of characterizations appear. I've begun to realize there is a process to writing and I am part of that process. So, I trust it more and more.

Tina”
--Anonymous
I keep writing. I don't edit and I don't rewrite when I am in this internal place of flux lest I destroy the seed of something positive and good and perhaps perfect for whatever I'm working on. When experiencing this self loathing its far too easy to see what i've written as "junk". I may ultimately edit out the "junk" later on, but only when I am feeling positive about myself will I do that. When I am in that funk of non acceptance of myself, I write about it. It's a process very much like taking out the trash.”
Lisa, you are right on as usual, as I do become obsessed with outcome, ergo overwhelmed. As well I've lived long enough to appreciate that life has peaks and valleys -- even the apostles had to come down from the mountaintop -- and that hibernation follows harvest which is in turn followed by growth.

I just keep writing in a notebook.

Helping others is and always has been an excellent starting point for the creative.”
--Anonymous
I finally had to get to a point where I told myself I was writing for me -- not for publication, therefore quit worrying whether it's perfect or not and just get it down.”
--Anonymous

Previous Questions

DateQuestion
Oct '07How do you practice writing with self-acceptance?
Aug '07What person, place or thing helped you reclaim your authentic writer self?
Jul '07What is your favorite word and why?
Jun '07What life transition opened your eyes to a new way of being with your writing?
May '07What experience has led you to write with humility?
Apr '07What first step can you take to write out your gremlin?
Mar '07How do you conquer feeling overwhelmed in your writing life?
Feb '07What’s one small step you can take to alter your expectations from unrealistic to manageable with your writing project?
Jan '07What’s one intention you can create for 2007?
Dec '06What sense memories do you have this Holiday season?
Nov '06What event from childhood inspires you to write?
Oct '06How have you moved from impatience to patience in your writing process?
Sep '06What’s one piece of work that helped you recognize the depth of your emotions and inspired you as a writer?
Aug '06What’s helped you to counteract the writing doldrums?
Jul '06When were you most present in the journey, not the destination, in your writing life?
Jun '06How did a major milestone transform your writing life?
May '06How has journaling helped you to move from a place of powerlessness to possibility?
Apr '06How has distraction led you to a positive and creative experience with your writing?
Mar '06What’s one way you can acknowledge and appreciate the abundance your have created in your writing life?
Feb '06When has trusting your intuition brought you to a deeper truth in your writing?
Jan '06What's one approach you can take to claiming your identity as a writer?
Dec '05How will you honor your desire to write in the midst of the holiday season?
Nov '05What's one simple thing you can do to bring more play into your life?
Oct '05How do you draw meaning from a stressful experience via the written word?
Sep '05When have you successfully altered your negative self-perceptions into a more positive outcome as a writer?
Aug '05When did you realize that your writing goals were attainable versus unrealistic?
Jul '05When has connecting with another human being inspired you creatively?
Jun '05What have you done lately to keep writing at the forefront of your life?
May '05What place of solitude can you create for yourself?
Apr '05What's one thing you can commit to setting aside so that writing is a priority this month?
Mar '05For which project have you created an internal deadline?
Feb '05What has been the most effective remedy to pull you back into your writing?
Jan '05What is one achievable, measurable and realistic goal that you want to accomplish by the end of 2005?
Dec '04What is one thing you can do this holiday season to honor your writer self?
Nov '04What values must you honor to be able to write your best?
Oct '04What frees you up to write without fear?
Sep '04What was memorable about a time when you moved from a place of being stuck to that of being unstuck?
Aug '04What one need must you honor to feel motivated to write?
Jul '04What unnecessary item can be cut from your schedule to give you the time to write?
Jun '04What was the biggest contribution that you made to someone's life?
May '04Describe a situation that led to a positive reciprocal relationship between yourself and another writer.
Apr '04How would you describe your writing space?
Mar '04When have you successfully tamed your fear of writing?
Feb '04Describe a character in one of your stories who you really enjoyed writing about. What did you like most about that character?
Jan '04What was the most creative and unique writing goal that you successfully completed?
Dec '03What writing gift can you give to others this holiday season?
Nov '03What conditions must you set in place on your journey to becoming a successful writer?
Oct '03What fun activity can you include in your life to refuel your creativity?
Sep '03What is one risk that you can take this week to keep the writing fires burning?
Aug '03How would you like your readers to be moved by your writing?
Jul '03What motivational stage are you in and where would you like to be?
Jun '03What do you imagine people say about your writing when you die?
May '03What energy boosters do you rely on to keep your writing fresh?
Apr '03How have your sources of inspiration impacted your writing?
Feb '03What tips do you rely on to ease your fear of writing?

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